I'm so excited to FINALLY get my new header up! It has taken me so long because I just couldn't sort out photos that I wanted to use for each of the boys. I like the one of Benjamin from his birthday, but he looks a bit "fluffy" (hehe!) compared with his brothers! ;) I'm just SO pleased to have an up-to-date header with the boys' photos in it, yay! The last one was of Arthur (aged 3!), Matthew (aged 2!), Nathan (aged TEN MONTHS!!!) and Benjamin's 12 week ultrasound picture!! Tsk tsk! NOW it has Arthur (5), Matthew (3.5 - I know he's now 4 but it was close enough!), Nathan (2 - it was taken 6 months ago but oh well - it's by far my FAVOURITE photo of Nathan and it always makes me smile to see it up there!), Benjamin on his first birthday (nice and recent!) and Samuel's 20 week ultrasound. I am going to try to be on top of the photos next time and get new ones for at least Samuel and Benjamin (I can't believe Samuel's coming!!! Squeeeee!!! It just keeps re-occuring to me and I have to pinch myself with joy that he's really coming to join our family!!) in maybe 6 months or so. I don't want Samuel's photo to be an ultrasound pic up to his first birthday like poor Benjamin's was!
Jennisa kindly did the header for me (she originally designed my blog layout 18 months or so ago)!
That's it really - just wanted to draw attention to my new header as I'm so pleased with it! :) What can I quickly note down while I'm here?!
Benjamin's WORDS!!! He's nearly 13 months old, and I have never had a baby like him before! I figured boys learn to talk later than girls - all mine have, and that's what seems to be the general case. Arthur had a handful of useful words at 16 months, and he was my earliest. Matthew and Nathan were 22 months before they really had ANY words, and didn't start actually talking until after they turned 2. All three were talking in sentences within a couple of months of turning 2 so they weren't "behind" for long!
So Benjamin said his first word at 10 months - "drink". He pronounced it in one of two ways - "guck" or "grich" or a combination of the two. I was so surprised, because well, he's a boy, and my experience with boys had meant that I was not expecting a word for many months yet! Before 10 months was out, though, he had "Daddy", "yeah", and "nigh-nigh" (for night night)!
At 11 months he added:
* No
* Mama
* Oh dear (pron. "Ohduh" or "Ohdoh") if he dropped something
* Matthew (pron. "Mah-" and a silent "ooo" with his lips, hehe!)
* Be-mah or Be-mam (for Benjamin!)
And at 12.5 months my running list (which I haven't added to since, whoops!) noted:
* Bye-bye (bah-bah)
* Car (pron. not much more than a hard "K" sound or "kuh")
* Bird (bur)
* Bar (that is, one of his cereal/fruit snack bars)
* Pwooooar! (pron. "Bow, bow!" like bow tie, which he says while wafting his hand when he farts, hahaha!)
* Yum (when he likes what he's eating!)
* Aaaad (for Arthur!)
He's not quite 13 months now, so in the last 2 weeks he has added (hope I don't forget any!):
* Bus (buh)
* Gone
* Clap
* Clock
* Back (which he says when he pulls a book of the shelf and then wants to put it "back", a favourite thing to do lately!)
* Ball (boh)
There are several more, I'm SURE, but I can't think of them! I need to get back to writing them down as they occur!
He combined 2 words for the first time this week, saying, "Car, bye-bye" when I closed the curtains after he'd been watching them from my arms at the bedroom window at bedtime. He LOVES watching cars from the window! He also loves watching birds in any setting. He sits near the living room window and every time he sees a bird fly past or land on a roof, he points and says, "Bur!" :) If we go out, while I am carrying him to the car, he's squinting up at the sky with his nose wrinkled up, saying, "Bur? Bur?" in a questioning tone, looking everywhere for any sight of a bird, bless his sweet little heart! When he sees one he sometimes squeals and says, "Bur!" in such a delighted tone! If he's at the window watching them and after a while no more fly by, he waits a while and then says, "Bye-bye bur...", waving at the window.
He is trying to say "light" and "banana" but the sounds he uses aren't quite consistent or clear enough to be able to say that he's saying those words yet. He tries them several times a day though!
He's SO much further on with speech than any of my other children! It's delightful to observe, and sort of uncharted territory for me, since I was not expecting it for a good while yet! I have had a couple of people wonder if he might stop or even lose some words once he starts walking, as that has happened with their little ones, so that might end up being the case for Benjamin, we'll see. He is not walking yet, which is another new thing. All my others were walking, as in, taking several steps or more than that, by 11.5 months or at least by their first birthday. So perhaps Benjamin is "doing" words earlier than the others because that's what he's chosen to work on, rather than walking like the others? I hope he won't stop or lose the words he's got when he learns to walk! He loves to talk, and he's SO motivated and intense about it. He watches my mouth so very carefully as I show him new words, and tries them out straight away. He doesn't get bored but practises words, and remembers that he was practising a specific word the next day, starting it up again and looking to me questioningly, for me to set him straight on it. None of the others were interested in talking, and would never repeat a word even after 18 months old, if I asked them to! So I'm enjoying Benjamin's enthusiasm and cuteness in this department! :)
He is beginning to get a couple of new words every day or so (today's are clock and clap). He will clap when he says the word, and look at the clock or point to it when he says clock, so he does know what he is saying - not just a repeat.
He stands unsupported a lot of the time now, and prefers it to holding onto something near him. He can get up from the middle of the floor to standing without difficulty. He cruises fast and easily, and crawls everywhere in the same way. He loves to climb the stairs and can do it fast! He also climbs on anything he can get his knee up onto, which has resulted in us temporarily turning the sofa and armchair to face the walls! SUCH a nice look, lol! But otherwise he's up like lightning, not just onto the sofa but onto the back of it and then onto the windowsill (and then falling right down onto the floor - it has happened once or twice, hence the sofa being turned around now!). He'll also climb onto one of the little school chairs, from there to the school table, crawl along that and then up onto the school cupboard that's at the end of the table. That ends at the windowsill too, and is the same height. He has fallen of the school cupboard once as well. He is now able to pull out the school chairs if he fancies climbing on one of them, so we are beginning to teach him not to climb when we say "No climbing". A work in progress - we are not getting anywhere yet! ;)
He is trying to take steps but he sort of drags his feet or swings his hip to bring his foot forwards instead of lifting - he really hasn't clicked that to walk he needs to LIFT his foot forwards yet, so he isn't walking yet! ;) He has taken one proper step this week, but that is all so far. I don't think it will be long now though! He'll be thrilled to walk about, but I do think he prefers communicating to moving - he has been that way throughout really. He communicates ever so clearly even with babble and especially with expressions - he uses his brow and his eyes like none of my others have been able to so far, hehe! You really KNOW what that boy is trying to tell you when he uses expressions! ;)
Okay, that's all for now! I am glad to have updated about Benjamin's latest stuff on the spur of the moment! Now it's recorded for prosperity, which is a relief because I am not good at remembering all this precious stuff! I will be back soon! Thanks for the recent comments on my two photo posts (Benjamin's birthday, and the beach)! :)